Although I'm not really a classic man, sometimes I feel being a virtual dinosaur in terms of technologies. Because of this, I fought off the idea of using texts in order to try to build rapport and attraction using a woman. Yeah, I heard our friends that are the same age as me (along with a bit more tech friendly) talk constantly about texting women. The point that really kept me around the sidelines was, as much as these guys were discussing texting women, they were not really getting much action at all from it.
So, it sort of did the work of making me feel safe in my decision to not use texting as part of my overall seduction "repertoire." Yeah, I might text a woman real quick to allow her know I was going to be at her house in Fifteen minutes something like that, but besides those trivial logistical issues... I really did not start to see the reason for everything.
It's always funny if you ask me to find out a lot of 20 something guys giggling like school girls as their fingers pound the small keyboards on their own smart phones. Looking at them, I knew I didn't wish to be one of those guys.
I met a woman one weekend, did the typical exchange of phone numbers, and when she got in touch with me again... I just been home bound having a serious case from the sniffles. Being a cold medicine filled zombie, I picked up my mobile phone when I heard that vibration alerting me she was sending me another message and then thing you understand... I'm texting forward and backward with her for just like a thirty minutes and it is sort of fun.
No, I was not giggling like a school girl, however i was having a great time also it gave the look of she was also. That whole exchange lasted for around Thirty minutes and i also really did not think it is all that much before the the next time I acquired in contact with her and we met up for coffee and conversation.
She was smiling from ear to ear.
I love to arrive over a good note, and from the expression on her behalf face, I needed definitely arrived over a pretty high note in her mind. It had been much like she cannot contain her happiness where there was another thing there also. It had been like she was convinced that we shared some inside joke that no one else for the reason that cafe were built with a clue about.
I sat down close to her and reached for the mug of coffee which was waiting there for me personally. And she or he burst out with a little laughter. Specialists what she was laughing about and he or she declared she was only thinking about what I texted her yesterday. To be honest, I hadn't put much thought into it and that i sort of needed just a little refresher on just what it was she was discussing.
Safe sex via text...
There were gone back and forth with a few somewhat naughty innuendos and sexually playful jokes understanding that was what have been on her behalf mind everything week. Now, in case you failed to catch it... yes, a brief exchange via cellular phone caused her to take into account sex and me all in the same train of though... all week long.
Then I noticed the actual power texting women. It isn't in acting being a giggling school girl. And it's not in sending mundane one liners simply to feel like you are connected to her. It comes down to being able to be part of a secret exchange she feels is protected.
See, a female such as the one I'd met isn't type to only immediately go back and forth having a guy she would never know much too well with any sexual innuendos or playful pillow talk. However, from the safe confines of her home, via her cellular phone... she was OPEN in a way that she might not have been had we been face to face.